In previous years I’ve made Best-of lists related to my romance reading: best titles; best covers; best heroes, heroines, and supporting characters, etc. This year I’m focusing instead on some memorable reading about romance; that is, some of the best posts and discussions from the marvelously fertile and fermentive world of romance blogging.
Here, in chronological order, are ten 2012 blog posts that stayed with me.
1. Erotica writer Remittance Girl considers the preponderance of bad sex in literary fiction
This studied avoidance of leaving their readers with even a moment of arousal… tells me that, although they feel perfectly free to engender sadness, frustration, disgust, etc. in their readers, they feel that sexual arousal is somehow beyond the pale… This valuing of all reader-responses over arousal screams of a truly unnatural social engagement with the concept of eroticism.
I’m still sorting out a lot of my own thoughts about writing sex, and I found this post, as well as its follow-up, to be thought-provoking and challenging in all the right ways.
RG also had a terrific post later in the year about book covers, specifically the limiting literalism of romance and erotica covers. I’m still thinking about that one too.
2. Meljean Brook stages the author meltdown to end all author meltdowns
Checked Twitter. Saw an author mention they are not enjoying a recently released book. Didn’t mention the title, but I just know she is talking about my book, because I haven’t seen her mention it on her Twitter stream before this. WHY DON’T YOU GROW A PAIR AND JUST SAY IT, YOU JEALOUS COW?
I don’t even remember which real-life author meltdown inspired this parody, but I’m grateful to whatever real-life author that was. The link above goes to the first of five posts. If you can make it all the way through #4 (“LORD COCKMONSTER IS NOT AN ASSHOLE AND IT SAYS SO RIGHT ON PAGE 374!!!!! “) without spitting a beverage on your keyboard, you’re made of sterner stuff than I.
3. At Dear Author, reviewer Lazaraspaste brings the hammer down on Fifty Shades of Grey
James has Christian constantly praising Ana’s intelligence and bravery and cleverness, but everything Ana does renders these compliments into ironic, nay sarcastic statements. Every time something sexual is mentioned Ana blushes or flushes or gasps. Any time Christian tries to have an adult conversation with her about BDSM, she bites her lip and peeks out from under her hair like Princess Diana used to do at the paparazzi.
2012 was a banner year for passionate, articulate negative reviews. This one, on one of Romancelandia’s highest-profile sites, taking on the highest-profile book of the year, was a particular standout. At a time when the mainstream media seemed keen to attribute Fifty Shades’ popularity to the undiscriminating tastes of the romance-loving reader, it was good to see an opinion like this, stated with authority and conviction.
Because the romance-reading community is not a monolith. We read critically, and we disagree with each other about what makes a good romance. If the Fifty Shades phenomenon proved anything, it surely proved that.
4. Jennifer Armintrout recaps the Fifty Shades books, chapter by chapter
Chapter 23 recap. You’ve been waiting for the infamous tampon scene, and now here it is. Here it fucking is.
Hilarious, profane, and fueled by three or four different kinds of outrage. Forty-nine chapters in, I find the series every bit as compelling as when she started back in April.
Interlude – With two vehemently anti-Fifty posts in my top ten, I felt like I should give time to the opposition. I didn’t encounter any especially memorable pro-Fifty posts this year, but I did find this very persuasive defense of the Twilight books, and I think a lot of its points could be made for the Fifty books too.
5. At the Ballroom Blog, Miranda Neville helps Lady B. make a coat of arms
Perhaps I can help. I have some rudimentary skill in Photoshopping, which is what we call watercolor painting these days.
I’m a sucker for Neville’s voice, and for her deft way with historical detail. Both in her books and in her Ballroom Blog posts, she always manages to teach me things I didn’t know, in the most entertaining fashion.
Also excellent: her Regency Project Runway posts of August 2011 and March 2012.
6. Mean Fat Old Bat, Emergency Babysitter
…the child arrived without so much as a Kleenex, nevermind the mandatory car seat so I couldn’t go anywhere with her. We stared at one another for awhile, she no happier than I but both of us raised to be polite in all situations.
Mean Fat Old Bat is the reason the internet was invented a shining example of the fact that, in the wild-west democracy of the internet, a great voice can make up for a lack of ostensible “platform.” “I read books and I have thoughts about them” pretty well sums up MFOB’s platform, and it’s all the platform she needs.
She had a bunch of insightful, highly readable reviews – both mean and otherwise – this year, interspersed with the occasional non-review post about Halloween traditions in her corner of Iowa, or an unexpected morning snowed in. The babysitting post was my favorite, though, because it told a sweet story in unsentimental fashion and she managed to sneak a book review in there, too.
7. Liz Mc2 is not your customer, dammit!
…a “customer service” approach is pointless to me. I don’t care if the author is sorry I didn’t like the book or some element of it. That doesn’t change my reading experience. If I think the author can’t use commas to save her life, or I hate the kind of heroine she writes, I’m not going to pick up another of her books just because she’s a “nice person.” (And since I’m confident in my opinions, I’m not changing my review or rating, either. I am going to be pissed off).
I could probably have made a Top Ten comprised entirely of posts from Liz’s Something More: My Extensive Reading blog, so often did the blog’s sensibilities and preoccupations line up with mine this year. I’ll make quick mention of her post on sympathy and George Eliot, and the one about the overdetermined hero, and also her guest post on Anna Cowan’s blog where she talked about reading with an academic sensibility.
The issue of appropriate reader-writer relations was a big one in 2012, and I think Liz’s “I Don’t Want to be your Customer” post spoke for a lot of fed-up readers – many of whom went on to articulate their own frustrations in the epic comment thread.
8. Anna Cowan explains the theory of id-fueled romance writing
It doesn’t have to be sophisticated, and it certainly doesn’t have to be an emotion or moral you would agree with. But something about it is primal and captivating, and there’s no question that the idea of it grabbed the writer and wouldn’t let go until it was written down.
This post did more than any other this year to help me understand the whole “There are all kinds of flaws in the writing, and in real life I’d kick this hero to the curb, but I inhaled this book and immediately downloaded the next one” way of reading.
Anna’s blog, Diary of a(n Accidental) Housewife, was new to me in 2012, and a very happy discovery. I love her forthright interest in issues of gender, and her belief in Romance as a genre where those issues can be explored. Her debut historical romance, featuring a cross-dressing duke, is way up on my list of most anticipated 2013 reads.
9. At Wonkomance, Ruthie Knox muses on escapism in historical romance
It doesn’t make the book a bad book, by any means, or one I’d discourage someone else from reading — it just makes me wonder, you know, what is it? Is it a romance novel if it makes me feel this hopeless, or is it something else?
This started as a review of Carrie Lofty’s His Very Own Girl, and spilled into a discussion – with a fantastic comment thread – of how far into the grittier, sadder, uglier aspects of a historical period a romance can go and still be a satisfying romance.
I’m going to cheat and add a 9a here – Erin Satie used Ruthie’s post as a springboard for an analysis of what exactly we mean when we talk about escapism. It’s one of my own pet preoccupations in the genre, so I’ve been glad to see it getting some attention this year.
10. At Dear Author, Janet revisits the question of whether Romance will ever be a “respectable” genre
Because it’s not just about Romance as a genre. It’s also about (primarily) women writing about the inner lives of other women. It’s about validating books that take as their subject matter the emotional journey to love, even and especially when that love comes in a form that challenges the social status quo (e.g. m/m or f/f Romance).
This is a topic that comes up again and again, and I never get tired of reading about it. Janet’s post also took on RWA’s RITA award, specifically in light of the new judging criteria that gives a higher weight to “romance” than to more objective measures of writing. Good comment thread with lots of strong opinions.
A related Dear Author opinion piece, also by Janet, asked whether we, as readers, have given too much weight to subjective tastes. I go back and forth on this question myself, so I’m always curious to read other people’s thoughts.
That’s my ten, but I’m sure I left off some good ones. Readers, what were some blogging highlights of 2012 for you? And what topics do you expect, or hope, to see getting some coverage in 2013?
I am increedibly flattered to find myself in this company. I know why you didn’t include it, of course, but your “middle finger” post for Anna Cowan would definitely top my list.
That would have been hilarious if I’d included my own post in a list of best posts of the year. It’s like something Psycho Meljean Brook would do.
I found it interesting, in picking your post, that I picked one that felt a little atypical of your blog. Usually you’re one of those people I think of as “the grown-up in the room” – reasonable, not over-invested in being “right,” able to hear and understand people even when you disagree with them, not temperamental – and that post was one of the few times I got the sense that you’d just plain had it.
Cecilia, you were so right about that sentence – readers have taken it as the post’s title even when I didn’t!! :-) And I thoroughly agree with Liz. That was my post of 2012, and I even got to host it!
I really enjoyed Romance Novels for Feminists’ post on feisty heroines not necessarily being feminist – one of the difficulties we face but haven’t given so much voice to.
And even though it’s not specifically about romance, a post that gave me so many thoughts about how to write a truly feminist heroine was about the Pixar movie Brave.
Also, this is my first attempt at HTML links. Yikes! I hope it doesn’t end up a mess.
The HTML links worked fine, although they did make WordPress put your post into limbo until I okayed it – I guess it assumes links might be spam :)
Yes, I appreciated that RNFF post on “feisty.” I wish, as readers and writers, we would not be so quick to settle for “feisty.” I understand that it’s come to be a kind of shorthand for “powerful,” but it always makes me think of something small and not actually very powerful. A small terrier, for instance – noisy and energetic, but easily swept aside when it comes down to it. I’d like to see fewer feisty heroines and more formidable ones.
I missed the post on Brave but I’ve got it open in another window and will read it right now. Thanks!
Formidable is an excellent word.
Oh my goodness. I saw extra traffic on my blog and tracked it down – again – to you. I can’t believe I’m in such august company here, golly. Thank you. I’m glad you enjoyed the story and I’m – golly – just really flattered.
I’m also seeing some blogs here that are new to me, and I foresee a lovely cold winter’s long weekend spent reading, learning, laughing, thinking.
I want to read the book with the cross-dressing duke. 2012 was my year for reading about cross-dressing women, and I want to read about the duke. I want it now. Although I must say that “My Lady Untamed” sounds more like a title you’d give a book.
LOL, it does sound like one of my titles, doesn’t it? Awhile ago someone on Twitter mentioned they were reading a book called “A Virgin Enslaved,” and I had to check for a second to make sure it wasn’t one of mine :) (In truth I’ll be glad when this series is done and I don’t have to come up with any more of this type of title… there are only so many variations you can do.)
Ruthie Knox somehow wangled a look at Anna’s manuscript for My Lady Untamed, and assures me I’m going to like it. Really can’t wait!
Cecilia, this is an amazing, eye-opening list to me. I found you on Anna’s blog and promptly bought A Gentleman Undone. It’s the best book I’ve read this year. Since I began writing, I’ve been looking for people that read and write romance who actually want to think about gender and feminism and some of the philosophical issues that interest me. I also appreciate the “author-ego-grown-up” type discussions. I am grateful for all these suggestions–lots of new people to follow.
I find it especially interesting that you cite Remittance Girl, and your own WIP-thoughts on writing sex. As writers, you both capture something that fascinates me, which is the transcendent potential of sex. And I must say, I read her recent novel just before yours, and I’ve been thinking about them side by side a lot. Did you see this article of hers? http://erotica-readers.blogspot.co.uk/2012/12/erotic-romance-vs-erotica-order-vs-chaos.html
Cheers and Happy New Year!
Okay, an ordained minister who writes vampire romance is eye-opening enough, but an ordained minister who reads full-on erotica? Your platform grows more intriguing the more I learn about you!
I didn’t see that RG article; thanks for linking to it. LOL, I’m definitely conservative in my reading and writing tastes. I like resolution, and I like the sense of continuity, of connecting with people who’ve gone before, that a genre like historical romance provides.
(Also I like constraints. Robert Frost once said, of free verse, “I’d just as soon play tennis with the net down.” I think of that a lot in relation to writing romance.)
Thanks for the kind words about Gentleman – I’m really glad you liked it – and Happy New Year to you!
You’ve named a lot of my favorite blog posts from last year! If I add something, it would be a nod to Sunita’s blog, Vacuous Minx. It’s now on hiatus and I miss it a lot. It’s hard to choose just one post from there but I’ll like to this one on The Alphasmart and the Shitty First Draft because it actually got me to buy an alphasmart.
Heh. I’ve been meaning to buy an Alphasmart ever since Meredith Duran was talking about hers on Twitter. Instead I bought a netbook, which isn’t quite as perfectionism-defeating (I can scroll back and beat myself up over the crappiness of what I’ve written), but does get me away from the internet, at least when I’m at home.
I worry all the time about bloggers I like burning out, or just getting tired of romance altogether. At least Sunita’s still reviewing on DA. The shutdown of ReadReactReview counts as the biggest Romancelandia loss of the year for me :(
I got my AlphaSmart on ebay for a song. I’m glad of that because I take it on the bus and don’t have to worry a lot about its ability to take a beating if I drop it. So far I’ve mostly used it for review writing, not for fiction. One of my 2013 resolutions is to change that.
Re. blogger burnout. I think it’s less likely to happen when one shares the blogging work with others. I’m so grateful to Jane and everyone else at DA for allowing me to read and contribute at my own pace.
That was supposed to be “LINK to this one” — but my fingers were on a different page from my brain.